There are many things that we can do to perk up and strengthen our



interpersonal relationships. Yet the most effective involves the



saying of just three words. When spoken or conveyed, these statements



have the power to forge new friendships, deepen old ones and



restore relationships that have cooled.



The following three-word phrases can enrich every relationship.





 




 


I'll Be There:



If you have ever had to call a friend in the middle of the night,



to take a sick child to hospital, or when your car has broken down



some miles from home, you will know how good it feels to hear the



phrase "I'll be there."



Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give.When we are truly present for other people, important things happen

to them and us. We are renewed in love and friendship. We are





restored emotionally and spiritually.





Being there is at the very core of civility.







 




I Miss You:





Perhaps more marriages could be saved and strengthened if couples





Simply and sincerely said to each other "I miss you."





This powerful affirmation tells partners they are wanted, needed,





Desired and loved. Consider how ecstatic you would feel, if you received an





Unexpected phone call from your spouse in the middle of your workday, just to say





"I miss you."







 





I Respect You:

Respect is another way of showing love. Respect conveys the feeling





 That another person is a true equal. If you talk to your children as if they





were adults you will strengthen the bonds and become close friends.





This applies to all inter-personal relationships.







Maybe You're Right:This phrase is highly effective in diffusing an argument and restoring

frayed emotions. The flip side to "maybe your right" is the humility of





admitting, "Maybe I'm wrong". Let's face it. When you have a heated





argument with someone, all you do is cement the other person's point of





view. They, or you, will not change their stance and you run the risk





 of seriously damaging the relationship between you. Saying "maybe you're





right" can open the door to further explore the subject, in which you





may then have the opportunity to get your view across in a more rational





manner.







 





Please Forgive Me:

Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would





admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable





to faults, foibles and failures. A man should never be ashamed to own





up that he has been in the wrong, which is saying, in other words,





that he is wiser today than he was yesterday.







 





I Thank You:

Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy. People who enjoy the





Companionship of good, close friends are those who don't take daily courtesies for





granted. They are quick to thank their friends for their many expressions of





kindness. On the other hand, people whose circle of friends is severely





constricted often do not have the attitude of gratitude.







 




Count On Me:





A friend is one who walks in when others walk out.





Loyalty is an essential ingredient for true friendship; it is the





Emotional glue that bonds people. Those that are rich in their relationships tend





To be steady and true friends. When troubles come, a good friend is there





indicating you can "count on me."







 




Let Me Help:





The best of friends see a need and try to fill it.





When they spot a hurt they do what they can to heal it.





Without being asked, they pitch in and help.







 




I Understand You:





People become closer and enjoy each other more if





they feel the other person accepts and understands





them. Letting your spouse know in so many little





ways that you understand them, is one of the most





powerful tools for healing your relationship.





This applies to any relationship.







 




I Love You:





Perhaps the most important three words that you can say.





Telling someone that you truly love them satisfies a





person's deepest emotional needs;





the need to belong, to feel appreciated and to be wanted.





Your family, your friends and you,





all need to hear those three little words. "I love you."







 






 




And how about "God Bless You?"







 






 




God bless.